It has been 2 months, and I got to start running again this last week! It is tough, but boy does it feel good! You don’t know how much you can miss something until you don’t have it anymore. I have only been going 2 miles at a stretch, and I am tired after this, but each day keeps getting better. So far, it has either been with Sarah or with our run group. One of these days, I will have to venture out on my own again…as long as Sarah lets me! The walking has been good too, but it is not the same as running. Both allow me to relax, and think, and just let my mind wander, but to me, it is just easier to be distracted from that thinking time with walking because it is so much slower. When I am running on my own, it is just my thoughts, and my breathing. Time to solve my days problems, and figure out what I could have done better that day, or if it was in the morning, what could I have done better yesterday, and what do I have to work on more today. We are never perfect, and we will always make mistakes. But, you keep trying, and you keep pushing. We all have room for improvement. Life is all about struggles, some bigger than others. But you keep coming back, and you try to get your life back on track for what is as close to normal for you as it can get.
Some of the walks in the evening along the lake when the sun is starting to set, and the trees are all coming to life…it can take your breath away some times. You literally feel like you are coming back to life. And for me, I am! The last week I had all my kids home, and it is nice to once again have home feel like it used to. Sarah and I have been adjusting to the empty nest now for awhile, but it is nice having the kids home. It is really tough when they leave, and is especially tough when Megan leaves because we don’t get to see her very often with her living in Virginia. We talk and or text every day, multiple times, but it is not the same. The one evening she was home we were out sitting in front of the fire pit, and just talking. Talking about life in general, and going over the goals each of us has, and what adventures, struggles, fun life may have in store for us going forward. That is what makes life interesting. It is always different, and rarely does it always goes as planned. You have to be ready to adapt, and make adjustments on the fly. I realize that more than ever now. When your own mortality comes into check, it tends to put a whole different perspective on things. We are not going to live forever. Don’t waste any of it! Make your days fulfilling and fun. Keep setting those goals, and trying to achieve more. Keep learning, and trying new things. That is where the running helps me…it literally helps me slow down time so that I can put my head around things, and figure life out, and plan on where or what I want to do next.
With my kids, there are always challenges that come up. Did we raise them right? Did we teach them to be responsible adults? Did we teach them the important things in life? We certainly instilled the benefits of keeping active, and being responsible for your own health. We all need to do that. That is the struggle many times in clinic. You try to help somebody, and encourage them to exercise, and eat better, but some days it is like banging your head on the wall! I can talk, talk, talk, but it only goes so far. That is still the main reason of working on another exercise streak, and why my last one was so important to me. I was trying to show that it could be done, and with no excuses. At least excuses for not doing it. There were always days where some complaining came into play. The weather, and all of the obligations to get done for the day always play a factor. But they were just minor “road blocks” that get in the way, at least if you let them.
Zeus sure loves having everybody home as well. More hugs, time spent with the kids, and more people for him to protect! But, he still gets to spend time with Sarah and I!
I will start going with him alone now too this week. Before, I did not go alone with him just because of his size, and trying to keep control with the leash. I was limited on how much lifting I could do, but it is now time to get back to normal here too!
Now is also the time for Sarah and I to spend more quality time together too. We did not always get that luxury before, but things have changed now. We have to make that time. We don’t know what time will bring going forward. We may not have as much time as we think we do. Never take it for granted. Keep yourself motivated to take care of yourself. The potential longer term benefits of this are truly priceless!
How true, how true! For me anyway. You all need to find out what the magic pill may be for you! Don’t give up trying. Life is too short to not keep trying. As I have written before, only you can find the answer to the question: “What is your why?” Discover your reasons why you want to be around, and then figure out what you can do to help with it. You can’t rely on new medical breakthroughs, science, or new pills for this or that. You have to meet it halfway and work on it too. Keep striving. Keep moving…everybody! Keep moving!!!!
Dr. Dan
Consecutive Exercise Day of new streak: 63
