by Dan | Feb 17, 2019 | Exercise, Family, Goals, Motivation, Weather, Wellness/Health
Well I don’t know if right now anybody else is struggling with trying to stay motivated to keep exercising, but I sure am. My foot problems flared up again this week, making it tough for me to be able to run since Tuesday. I am still doing other exercise, but not running. I started physical therapy Friday, so helpfully this will help too. Then with all the snow, the continued cold, and the clinic has just been crazy this past 3 weeks with influenza, and call, it has been hard to concentrate on staying active. Somedays you wonder why you even make the effort. I keep my consecutive exercise streak in mind, and this helps push me to keep going too. I try to help keep everybody else motivated to keep moving, and I have to keep trying to motivate myself too! One thing for sure that helps me to keep going is that eventually it has to get nice out, right? I mean, really? It is going to get nice out again…someday. I keep those thoughts of the nice weather, and being out on the trail, and just taking in some nice weather, sunshine, and not having any injuries!
Sarah and I keep each going, and always have. So when one is hurt, or limited, it affects the other person too. It is just not the same when we can’t work out together. It gets hard to get fired up to go workout…by yourself! Nobody to discuss things with. Nobody to hash over the day with. Somedays it feels like you have nobody to push you, and then you start feeling sorry for yourself. Keep those good days in mind.
With this stretch of weather, sometimes it feels like things are impossible. Just rework that word, and turn it into “I M Possible”! I can do this. Put my head down, and keep going. This tough stretch is not going to last forever. The reason I keep going at this is because of the benefit of all those good days when they come. If you throw the towel in every time it starts getting tough, you will never get anything done.
Sarah and I have done a lot of races and events together. We have a lot more planned. FOCUS! FOCUS! FOCUS!
This hits it right on! Commitment! Not only to exercise, but to relationships, time…life in general. There are going to be some tough times…like with running, bad weather, hills, ice, snow, heat, injuries…you name it. Everything with this, just like with life, is not always easy. There are challenges in everything. But, how you react to those challenges is what makes you, or breaks you.
We are in the drivers seat. For me, I could easily have pitched this exercise streak and said, “you know, this is probably a good time for this to end”. As tough as it has been to keep going, it is still the same when I get done exercising. I am glad I did it. I feel better, and have burned off some frustrations. The same problems are still there, but I can start to figure out how I am going to deal with them now. That is the secret.
I will be out there with Sarah again. I will be doing more races and events again. Be patient! Take a deep breath! RELAX! Give it some time (even though I don’t want to!). There are days when yes, we have to motivate ourselves. But, at the same time, we need to keep motivating others. We are not in their shoes. We know what our own individual struggles are, but we have no idea what somebody else may be going through. We may think we have it tough at times, only to realize somebody else has it much tougher. So while you keep motivating yourself, remember somebody else may be watching you, and you can set an example for them. Push yourself, and it may help push others. That in and of itself can also help motivate you to keep going too!
Keep moving! Keep trying! Somedays it feels like you are in a marathon, and the finish line is nowhere in sight. Life is a marathon. Ups, downs, struggles, joys, relief, pain, joy…many emotions to go through. But the bottom line is you have to keep repeating to yourself 3 little words:
Yes you can! REPEAT! There are many motivational mantras that can be created to help keep us motivated. Some of them are more generic and can apply to all of us, and some of them may just apply to us alone. The more direct it is to us as an individual, the more powerful it can be for us. That will be the next blog topic–creating a motivation mantra that has significance to each of us. Then focus on it and never lose sight of it. It will help get you through all of those struggles in life, and help keep you moving as well. YES YOU CAN! Keep moving everybody! YES YOU CAN!
Dr. Dan
Consecutive Exercise Day #: 4162
by Dan | Dec 30, 2018 | Equipment, Exercise, Family, Goals, Heart Health, Holidays, Motivation, Weather, Wellness/Health
There is nothing like spending the holidays at home…with family! The weekend before Christmas we were in SF spending a day with my family, then to Huron to spend a day with Sarah’s family. The best part though is that we had all 3 of our kids at home for Christmas! The times we are all together again have been getting too few and far between! It started on the December 21 picking up Megan and Nate at the airport.
It is nice to see how your kids react when they have not seen each for awhile! My twin girls missed each other, and it makes it so nice when we can get together.
We got to spend time with the future son-in-law, and boyfriend, as well. It is exciting to see what the future brings for expansion of this family. Many choices, taking chances…new adventures to be had by all of us!
Of course, with the holidays, it is time to really enjoy some of the great things to eat as well. My sister-in-law Michele makes some of the best “Monster cookies” I have ever had! Of course, when we eat more, we have to continue to keep working on the exercise aspect of things as well. No shortage of that around here, even when mother nature throws a curve ball blizzard into the mix of things.
This is looking across the road at the golf course…our view from our house. Almost a foot of snow. The snow does not mean we could not exercise. We maybe had to do some different things for the activity, or be creative with it.
Nate and Megan took advantage of the snow and went cross country skiing. Nate is originally from Virginia, so these kind of blizzards don’t come very often, and if they do, the snow does not last long. He loved it…not enough to live here, but enough for the visit!
We all took advantage of the “Reiflex Center”, my garage gym, and exercised in there. We even got Zeus involved in this!
Here Zeus is working on his hind leg squats! He just likes to get his butt scratched, and then he becomes “putty”. But, he wanted to be in the thick of things. He is part of this family as well, and helps keep us going as well. Sarah has been taking him for walks every morning with me recovering from the stress fracture. Hopefully I will be out there walking again soon too. The bike is getting a little bit boring, and I only made it swimming once last week. The other 2 days that I could go the Wellness Center to swim they were closed due to the blizzard!
This was our farewell breakfast before Megan and Nate were to get dropped off at the airport. It was a fast week, but a lot of fun. I am wearing off on my kids. We met for breakfast at 8 AM, and Megan was up early to workout as she would not be able to the rest of the day as they would be traveling. That makes me feel good! She feels the exercise is important enough to make it a priority, and like all of us, she had to plan and figure out when was going to be the time to fit it in her schedule. As parents, we set the tone, and our kids follow. So remember that everybody! You can make a difference on somebody else by staying healthy, watching our diet, and exercising regularly. That in and of itself can be motivation to ourselves knowing that somebody else, whether our family, or friends, is depending on us. Don’t let them down. Keep striving. Keep pushing. Keep trying. And…keep moving everybody! Happy New Year to everybody as well. New Year’s resolutions or not, make it a yearlong goal, not just a January goal!
Dr. Dan
Consecutive Exercise Day #: 4113
by Dan | Dec 9, 2018 | Equipment, Exercise, Family, Goals, Motivation, Wellness/Health
Well, it is now 2 weeks without running, and I honestly have not noticed anything different with my foot. I was hoping it would be around 4 weeks to get back to running, but may be more like 6 weeks or more now. I have to say, I am learning a ton with swimming, and maybe deep down this is what it was going to take in order to get me to swim better. I am taking a page out of my daughter Megan’s blog…swimming through life. She talks about her adventures, struggles, and accomplishments through her blog, and through swimming, like I do with running. But now the table is turned. I gave her pointers with her blog, and with her running, now she is giving me motivation and tips on swimming. I get a lot out of reading her blog as well, and would highly recommend it to everybody else as well! The aspect about swimming that is so foreign to me is the total concentration it takes for the timing of my breathing in conjunction with the arm stroke, and leg kicking. It is definitely all about timing. It is getting easier, and I am hoping as time goes, I won’t have to think so much about while swimming. That is what is so enjoyable about running…I don’t have to think about running, I can think about everything else in my life, and come up with solutions during that workout. I am like Forrest Gump…”I just like to run!”
It has been 2 weeks now, and I have swam 3 days a week. When I first started, I could not get across to the other side without stopping. I was in a hurry, and could not relax. Jason has been telling me and telling me, the whole thing is to relax, and go slower, and in the long run, you will become much more efficient. How true! My total distance the first day was 350 yards, and 3/4 of that was using fins! This last Thursday I could make it to the other side 8 times now without stopping, each of them one at time, and made it a total of 800 yards for the morning! It is coming. I am making progress each day. I still am constantly thinking of every movement, and the timing of my breathing, so by the time I am done and I am physically and mentally drained.
I am shortening the time I have at each end to rest. How many times I would hear from my daughter, and other people who swim, that running to them makes them feel “like a fish out of water”. Now I can safely say I feel “like a runner in the water”. They are completely different sports. Each takes practice. That is why I always tell people the best activity to do is the one you like to do, as that is the one you will stick with. No differences here either! For me, though, swimming is a lot like dealing with the struggles that come up each and every day. You have to keep focused, you have to concentrate. If you let your guard down, things start to fall apart, and you struggle. That is also what is great about Megan’s blog as well. I helped her come up with the title of “Swimming through life”, but she writes everything else. At this time, I am swimming through life, and can’t wait until I can get back to running through life again. With swimming, because you have to slow down, and relax, that is really what life should be like. It does not have to be this “hurry up” pace, and see “how fast can things get done”. Injuries in and of themselves are depressing, but you can learn other things from them. Take advantage of those opportunities when they come with the positives that they can bring. We always can learn something new. That does not mean it will be easy, and come naturally. But don’t give up! Keep “swimming” or “running” through life, just make sure you enjoy the adventure along the way.
Sarah has been coming with me to the pool at least once a week too. She does not like the water, so for her to do this, is great. It is another 45-60 minutes I get to workout with her, and spend time together.
Here she is by a bunch of the different type of equipment we can use to help get down some of those swim strokes. They really are helpful. The only way though that I/we are going to get any better swimming is getting in the water. So here is to “swimming through life”, one day at a time! Keep moving everybody, and never give up on yourself!
Dr. Dan
Consecutive Exercise Day #: 4092
by Dan | Nov 25, 2018 | Exercise, Family, Goals, Holidays, Motivation, Wellness/Health
With the Thanksgiving holiday this past Thursday, it was a good time to reflect back on all of the things to be thankful for. Friends, family, fun, food…doing activities that a fun, just to name a few. So on Thanksgiving, it was time again for the annual Turkey Day 5k run/walk. Even though I am dealing with an injury, I decided to run, but would take it slow. Tom is recovering from an injury as well, so we decided to run together. It was again great just to be out and run with my long time training partner/friend! We did not set any records, but we had a good talk for 34 minutes while we were running…and were just happy to be able to cross the finish line.
I can never not mention all of the good food this time of year. Turkey with all the other traditional foods that go along with it, is my favorite meal! It was great! Our motto on Thanksgiving: Before you can stuff your face, your have to finish the race!
Here Sarah is coming across the finish line. Molly and her fiancée Tanner were in Marsahll, MN running the Turkey run there. It is becoming a family tradition…in this family, you get to exercise, and eat well!
Tom and I got to run another race together. Thursday was not about time though…it was about spending time together, both recovering, or in the process of trying to recover, from injuries. The fact that we even got to run made an even more memorable day. We ran together from start to finish. Our time was irrelevant. Tom was hoping during the run we would not be last. I reminded him that the day was not about our time. Nobody else was in our shoes, just like we were not in theirs. We had a social run together, once again just shooting the crap talking while out for a run. Those are the days to remember. Our times are not important!
We once again got to run and hang out with a bunch of friends, old and new. All of these people came into our lives because of running. Incredible!
Of course, I got to run another race with my Sarah! Running brought us together some 30 years ago, and to then be married over 28 years ago. Running has been a big part of our lives, and will continue to be as long as we are alive. The memories keep building, and I would not trade any of them! Start making memories for yourself! Make events like these a new tradition for you, and in the process, help take care of yourself to be around longer to enjoy all of the things in life. Give thanks to what you have now, and what you have to look forward to later…new adventures, new friends, new races…new memories! Keep moving everybody!
Dr. Dan
Consecutive Exercise Day #: 4078
by Dan | Nov 18, 2018 | Equipment, Exercise, Family, Goals, Heart Health, Motivation, Wellness/Health
There is no question, my favorite sport for me to participate in is running. I do other exercises at different times just to help break things up a little, but end up doing more of these different activities whenever I am dealing with a running injury. One of those times is now. You start to realize how important your feet our for every day things, not just running. It is a continuous reminder all day long when your feet are hurting.
I have always tried to get good running shoes, and change them out frequently. Now I am trying some different brand shoes to see if this will be any better. Right now I am dealing with plantar fasciitis in both feet. The left foot I can contend with, the right one has been a pain, literally, now for the past 2 months. I have to get to the point where I have to take a break from running. Even if I only do our Wednesday and Sunday run club 4 mile runs, I am limping for the next 2 days. I guess my body is trying to tell me something.
For those of you who don’t know what plantar fasciitis is, this picture shows where it hurts. It is a disorder of the connective tissue of your arch, which supports your foot. It results in pain I the heel and bottom of the foot, and is usually the worst first thing in the morning when you get up. The causes are not really well known. It is believed to result from overuse, long standing or doing a lot of exercise, or in my cases, doing a lot of races. I ice, massage, wear night splints, better arch supports for my everyday shoes, different running shoes…I just have to give it a rest from actual running.
These are some of the different night splints I have been using. It keeps my arch stretched during the night so it won’t be so sore when I first step on it in the morning. They do help, but I guess I need more help with patience!
I have been on my elliptical and bike more because it puts lets strain on my foot. I have to try and get going on swimming as well…I am just trying to convince myself I don’t have to resort to swimming, but I am starting to realize I am losing this battle! I want to get back to running, and I suppose now in the Winter time is a better time if I have to back down things. The other activities get boring, and is harder to motivate to use. I am keeping my exercise streak intact though…it will take a lot more than this to bring that to an end. I want to get back on the “racing circuit” with Sarah and the rest on run club. I am still planning on doing the Turkey Day 5K…slow…then recover again after. Will see how it goes. It is not fun staying back from running when you see other people, especially your friends, out running, and you can’t be with them! To all my friends in run club…keep holding down the fort. I have to take a break for awhile, but guarantee will be back, and ready to go again. We have all had to deal with injuries at one time or another, and they are always tough. Running and exercising are tough, but not doing it is even worse! Keep moving everybody!
Dr. Dan
Consecutive Exercise Day #: 4071
by Dan | Nov 11, 2018 | Exercise, Family, Goals, Motivation, Wellness/Health
Last week I wrote about my training partner and friend, Tom. This week it is time to talk about some other training partners/friends. It was a busy week this past week for several members of our run club. Erika and Jill went with Amanda to New York City where Amanda was registered to run the NYC Marathon! She was going to run as a representative for Team FARA…Friedreich’s Ataxia Research Alliance. Many of us did the Twin Cities Marathon a year ago where 21 of us from Watertown were running for Team FARA. Several people have FA in Watertown, and were raising money for them. I have written several times on this in the past. But this time, Amanda was going to run alone.
Several of us were in Denver several weeks prior to that running the Rock n Roll Half Marathon representing Team FARA. It was a great time, and a great way to run a race together. But again, Amanda was going to run the marathon on her own.
Jill and Erika were helping her to get fired up for this. It is a challenge running a race, much less a marathon, on your own. There is no question it is great having people cheer along the way, but it gets tough keeping the concentration with running that far on your own. She was getting into it though!
She was running mainly to represent and raise money for Team FARA, and here she is posting her wish on the wall.
Here is a close-up. I have to laugh as well…of course she added world peace to her list as well! Keep the faith Amanda!
She not only did a great job raising money and awareness for Team FARA, but she also ran a personal record…on her own…and qualified for the Boston Marathon with her time of 3:31:17! For those of you who don’t know, the Boston Marathon is a goal all of us runners would dream of running in. You have to have a qualifying time to do this, meaning somewhere you had to run a marathon fast enough to achieve this. Personally, I have tried 16 times, and have not gotten a qualifying time. It takes a lot of work, dedication, concentration, and I think, incredible effort. Not only did she run this on her own, but qualified for Boston! I am still in awe Amanda! It is incredible beyond words. You accomplished your goal of representing Team FARA, and topped it off with your long term goal of being able to go to the Boston Marathon. You ran 18 minutes faster than your previous best marathon! Incredible! Our run club is a close group here. We were all cheering and following you from back here, besides Jill and Erika being in New York with you following, and waiting at the finish line for you!
Our run club had our signs up that morning cheering you on. But what sums up that concept I talked about last week about training partners…friends…was Jill waiting for her at the finish!
This one needs no words to describe! No words to describe the friendship that comes from our running group. We are all there for each other. A memory for a lifetime! Another member of our run club, Cory, ran the Twin Cities Marathon last month, on his own. We were all cheering from back here, and following along. He ran a personal best as well, and the rest of us could not have been happier for him! We all run together…train together…spend time together. The emotions that go along with all of this is hard to describe unless you are part of it. Anybody is always welcome to join us as well. Lifelong exercise…lifelong friends…lifelong memories! What are your goals? What memories do you want to make? It truly is up to you! Keep moving everybody!
Dr. Dan
Consecutive Exercise Day #: 4064
