by Dan | Jun 19, 2016 | Exercise, Family, Motivation, Wellness/Health
There were lots of fun times spent with the kids growing up. A lot of these memories start flooding back when I go looking through all of the pictures. Everybody here was so proud of the fish they caught. The kids always came with us when we went to go run races too.
Here are my twins one year after doing Grandma’s marathon. It was great having your own cheering section along the route. As they got older, I returned the favor by cheering them on at all of their sport events. It was just as much fun watching them as it was participating in the events myself. As a Dad, it was fun watching them evolve and change, and grow up!
They are all in college now…where has the time gone! That is what makes pictures such a treasure…you can always look back and feel like you were right back at that moment again. Forever a treasure.
Many of us can be a Father, but it takes someone special to be a Dad! Things may not always go as planned, and life throws a lot of curve balls, and problems along the way. At times there always seemed to be something more stressful that had to be worked on. That is where the exercise came into play. It was an escape valve. A way to unload some of that pressure, blow off some steam…just have time to think.
But, what I think was more important about being a Dad, especially for my kids, was to see how Sarah and I got along. When they see how much we care for each other, and do things for each other…there is no stronger bond. Lead by example. You can say anything you want, but if you don’t show it with your actions, it means nothing.
Parents set the tone for the kids…mom and dad both! If you don’t work as a team, nothing gets done, or at least not done very well. The kids bought us tickets to go on an adventure…Chanhassen to go see a play, Beauty and the Beast, followed the next night to a Twins game. This was our Mother and Father’s day present from them. It was great.
Here Sarah is at the play. It was a great gift!
Father’s Day now leave a gap with me since my Dad passed away 1 1/2 years ago. Maybe time will continue to heal, but not yet. It is a tough day for me. There is not a day that goes by that I don’t think of him!
But, I have lots of memories to keep looking back at! There were lots of things he taught me as well, and led by example. It takes a special individual to really be a Dad!
Hopefully I have been doing this for my kids…at least trying! We all make mistakes. That is what makes life an adventure. Things are never predictable, and it is always easier to come up with the right way to do things once the problem or issue is over. Trying to do it right at the time is what is hard. I still have my mom to bounce things off of, but there are still times when I wish I could still ask my Dad for advice.
Miss you Dad! Everybody else have a good Father’s Day…remember why we have these days. Keep moving everybody!
Dr. Dan
Consecutive Exercise Day #: 3187
by Dan | Jun 12, 2016 | Exercise, Goals, Motivation, Wellness/Health
Yesterday marked the 20th Anniversary of the Hospital Hill 5k Run. Tom Beaudry and Kris Munger have been my mainstay for many years, but we have had help for many years by other people volunteering and helping. One of those was Tim Page. He was a pharmacist at Prairie Lakes Hospital since 1992. He was our official starter of the race for the last 19 years. Tim lost his battle with cancer, and passed away one week ago. Tim was a co-worker, colleague, runner, and…friend. He was in our hearts and minds yesterday. Here is a picture before last years race with Tom Beaudry, as we were getting ready to get set up for the race.
Here is a picture from years ago when Tom and Tim had done one of their first marathons together. I trained with both of them for one of the early Grandma’s marathons as well, but that was the only one I got to train with Tim also. Tom had some memories of quotes that Tim use to say on some of those runs: “There is Magic in Misery”, “I can, I will, I’m going to finish this run”. I remember a few of these lines as well. He struggled with injury on that last one where I was involved in, but he never quit. He finished…regardless. Just like his adventure in life. That is what running, or exercise in general, can do for us. It can make us stronger, not only physically, but mentally. It can help us push through the every day struggles that we can come across each and every day. But don’t give up! We all have our struggles to contend with…but we need to learn to deal with them as they come.
For the race yesterday, Tim’s dad stepped in, and became our starter for the 20th anniversary race…a race we dedicated to Tim Page.
I have to believe that put a smile on Tim’s face! Even though we may not always be able to handles things in life as they come, how we handle the “adventure” says a lot about us as well. We all have a purpose in life, and I think the goal would be for all of us…definitely for me…to feel like we made us difference with our lives. That what we do, and did, had a purpose, and that we should feel satisfied with how our life turned out. If it is not, then you need to make a change while you can…to figure out that purpose in your life…to decide what adventures you are going to take.
We need to figure out our purpose!
Here is Tim starting the race last year…
Even though he was not there, he was…in our hearts and minds! Tim is now “starting” a new adventure…one everybody else may not have been ready for him to take, but many of those times we are not given many options.
Tim…you will be missed!
Keep moving everybody! Keep doing what you can to take care of yourselves, as we all embark on new adventures, and continue to Strive to Survive!
Dr. Dan
Consecutive Exercise Day #: 3180
by Dan | Jun 5, 2016 | Exercise, Family, Goals, Motivation, Wellness/Health
I have spent this last year discussing about exercise, life, motivation, and inspiration. I have had topics of me about how to stay “In it for the Long Run”, and most recently finished up a series on “Success in Life”. Now is the time to reflect back on all of this, and then incorporate it going forward. How better way to start than a picture of my friend Tom and I. We have been through a lot together. Many races, challenges, training runs, and all of these times has a story to tell.
Life is full of adventure, and ours adventures can fulfill our passions, and our passions create our life! This is what I will incorporate going forward. Discussing my adventures in regards to fitness and activity, how it fulfills my passion in life, and how this passion has helped create my life, and everybody and everything in my life. I will talk about how some of this passion of mine has rubbed off on other people, and what two people could this include more than some of my nurses, both current and past.
Here are Chris and Susan after they just finished their last adventure…having finished their first half marathon in Fargo a few weeks ago. The looks on their face says it all! Excitement, pride, accomplishment. They did it! Way to go you two! They started a new adventure, which all of us at times need to do as well.
We all have a time when we need to start something new. Something we have not done before, or go somewhere we have never been before. That is what makes life exciting! Explore! See what’s out there. Take advantage of each new day we have, and live life to the fullest. By the time we are no longer here, we want to be able to say “I lived my life with no regrets”! Time to become adventurous!
Here is Zeus waiting patiently as I am eating popcorn, just hoping that I will give in and give him some. His concentration is unbroken! He will continue to stare me down until I give in! Sometimes in life it is OK to wait patiently for things, and other times it is not. We need to make things happen, not wait for things to happen for us. Let loose…be bold…go explore…find out what we may be missing! Life is an adventure!
So hang on! Time to go explore! Time to go on an adventure with our life! Time to help find our own passions, and to live our life to the fullest. And so the adventure begins…I will take you on my adventures, and then see where your adventures can take you, as we all Strive to Survive! Keep moving everybody!
Dr. Dan
Consecutive Exercise Day #: 3173
by Dan | May 29, 2016 | Exercise, Family, Goals, Motivation, Wellness/Health
This is the final installment of my success in life series. How better way to end this series than to talk about inspiration. We all want to be inspired when it comes to getting motivated to exercise, or even in general, motivated in life. But, it is actually more important, and rewarding, to be an inspiration to somebody else.
Here I am last weekend in Fargo…running the 5k with my daughter Molly. I was running to help get her through, but she was my motivation for the day. There is nothing like coming across the finish with your arms raised in the air with one of your kids! The highlight of my weekend!
We all have those things that inspire us in our lives, but for me, nothing more than my own family!
Here was my son Nick after finishing the half marathon! He was pumped! He had never run a half before, and he totally took charge…and had fun doing it!
Nothing brings more joy to me than seeing how my kids get along, and how all of them help to take care of themselves and exercise. This picture of me with my twins when they saw each other for the first time after spending their first semester of college apart from each other…a first ever! They had tears in their eyes they were so happy to see each other…
…This of course put tears in my eyes! Nothing makes me as a Dad more proud then to see my kids get along with each other! I owe a lot of that help to my wife Sarah! Of course, our kids see how we get along, and care for each other, that this starts to rub off on them!
This is one of the views Sarah and I had when we were in Hawaii celebrating our 25th Anniversary! The view takes your breath away. Sometimes we all need to do that as well…stop and take a look at the big picture…figure out what is important in our lives, and then continue to work at it. That is what is inspiring! But you have to keep working at those things in your life! Nothing comes easy. The old saying anything worth having is worth fighting for…nowhere more important than here.
So, life, just like in a race or walk that you may enter, needs to have a start point!
Don’t limit your challenges! The sky is the limit. We are limited more by our own minds than our bodies!
Just remember to keep looking ahead, and focusing on where we are going, not where we have been!
Keep moving everybody! Be an inspiration to somebody else, and you will be surprised at how inspiring that can be for you! That is truly success in life! Now I am challenged to come up with some other ideas that maybe will be an inspiration to somebody else as well, and maybe help motivate them into taking better care of themselves, and work on their exercise and health. That will be my continuing ongoing challenge…and if it may help somebody else, that is what inspires me!
Dr. Dan
Consecutive Exercise Day #: 3166
by Dan | May 22, 2016 | Etc.
We have all had times in our lives where we feel we were “wronged” by somebody. Sometimes we can move on, and sometimes it just keeps “hanging on”, and we keep bringing ourselves back to it again. We have to learn to let it go! We need to be surrounded by others, whether family or friends who support us, and help remind us, that they are they for us, no matter what. Here are my 3 kids when they were little, and I was running the Twin Cities Marathon. They were a walking billboard for me that day. This was the message on the front of their shirts. It can be a reminder to us all to “Go”! Keep moving forward, and learn to forgive those things in our lives, or people in our lives, who we have had an issue with. Exercise is a great way to help relieve that additional stress.
Forgiveness is not the easiest things to do in some situations…but for many, is the only true answer.
But can it ever change things going into the future! A huge amount of stress can be taken off of our backs just by doing this. Sometimes we may need time to think, time to go workout and relieve that stress and figure out what to do, and at other times, we just need TIME!
Forgiveness can help us move on. Exercise can be a source to give us that energy, and time to think, to be able to move on! You don’t, or won’t know, how much until you try it!
We need to rely on people around us, and closest to us to help with this. It is amazing how much this can help as well!
As I was coming to the finish line of the marathon that day at Twin Cities, my kids all turned around to give me another message! I have never forgotten this…ever! And I don’t think I ever will! This was huge to me, and a reminder to me that I have people who care for me as well! We don’t need to always do things by ourselves, or have to get through those tough times by ourselves! That is what family and friends are for! The picture is at the end of this post!
Keep moving everybody! Learn to forgive…learn to let it Go! I frequently look back on this picture…it is one of my favorites!
Consecutive Exercise Day #: 3159
Dr. Dan
