Becoming a Better You: Always work at being a better Dad!

go dad go

As we come upon another Father’s Day, it is once again time to reflect back on the accomplishments that have been made, what went right, what went wrong, and how or what can I do to improve things. Sarah and I over the years have always been active, and we have tried to teach our kids to be active as well. It is that important! There are so many other adventures and activities that you can do together, that will make lifetime memories. This first picture Sarah had made T-shirts for one of Grandma’s marathon’s that I was in, and these guys were my walking cheerleaders. I would come down the road to hear them cheering me on, and to see what they were wearing! Boy, talk about getting fired up. It is one of my favorites pictures, and times, to look back on. There are many times to look back at, with the trips we have made, activities we have done. That is what makes pictures so nice. It helps you to remember details that you may have otherwise forgotten.

awesome dad
This was one year, on Father’s Day, taking a picture with me wearing my shirt that says “Awesome Dad”! Hard to realize they were that little once. There were many times we got to spend out at the Lake as well.

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Here we are showing off the fish we caught. Just a little excitement from everybody here! They also came with us to many races/marathons, and were my ongoing cheerleaders. It was great having them come along. Now they are starting to participate in these races with us! Here my twins are with me the following morning after one of Grandma’s Marathon races.

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The perfect way to feel ready to go again! With what we do for our jobs, it made it hard many times to figure out how we could spend more time with them. When you look back, there are always things you wish you could change, and how you would spend your time. But, at the time, we did the best we could, and tried to make many lifetime memories. We had a lot of fun when they were growing up. I learned many things from my Dad. I probably got to spend more time with him after he retired, as his job entailed working evenings. We never wanted for anything, except being able to spend more time with him. Later on, we just had to spend more quality time together!

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Of course, this may be Father’s Day, but none of these things would have happened without help from Sarah. We were truly a team. We remain a team yet. Yesterday Sarah and I participated in the “Race for Chase”, a 10 mile team race where one of you has to ride, and one has to run. You start together, and have to finish together, and you can trade off as often as you want. We won our age group for coed teams…the age group I refer to as “Team Old”! We had fun, and hopefully there will be many more running, biking, and exercising adventures to do together, not only with the two of us, but later with the kids, and then grandkids.

sarah and I

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My three kids are growing up, and moving on with their own lives. Hopefully, we have instilled in them how to become better at taking care of themselves, staying active, and being involved as a family. We all can work at becoming better. Me included…I always have to continue to work on being a better Dad. I got one shot at it, and the job description keeps changing, so hopefully I can continue to adapt and change on the fly. But, one thing is for sure. I will never forget my walking billboard at the marathons. The front of the shirts you saw at the beginning. But, when they would turn around as I ran by, and it was the back of the shirts that I will never forget!

we love you

This is what it is all about! This is why I want to be around longer. This is why I need to continue to work on becoming a better Dad…always. You do the same, whether as a Dad, or Mom, or friend, or whatever! Work on becoming a better you!

Keep moving everybody!

Dr. Dan

Consecutive Exercise Day #: 3550

Becoming a Better You: Utilizing a Little Help From Our Friends!

Dan running
There are always time when we need to work out, no matter what type of exercise, by yourself. Time to think, time to sweat, time for you! But, there are those times when it would be nice to have help from others, whether family or friends. As time goes on, these two groups, family and friends, can be hard to differentiate. They can become one in the same. We need them for support, for motivation, for laughing, for working out our problems. A lot of times their problems are similar. Talking about it can resolve things easier. We become better, and they become better. When one of them gets hurt, or injured doing exercise, things are not the same. Something is missing. I have written on this before. Whether it was myself, or a family member, or a member of our run club, something is missing when one of can’t participate. Jill has been hurt with a sore foot lately, and her brother Steve had been dealing with a sore foot, and then my nurse Chris has been dealing with a sore foot while she was training for her half marathon. Bottom line, we will all have some type of injuries along the way, but the benefit that comes when we do exercise, and participate in activities, far outweighs that risk of injury. All we can do is support, listen, help them if we can, and wait until they can return. Until you are in that situation yourself, it is hard to describe that feeling when you can’t participate, and can’t wait for that time to be back at it again ourselves.

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Our run club continues to keep growing…not only in numbers, but in friendship. There are some of those times when it is time to meet for a run, and I am not really in a mood to go run, but I am in a mood for spending time with these people…friends…who become like family! We are there for each other. We get to know each other. We worry about each other! We become better ourselves because of our friends!

Molly thumbs up

The Hospital Hill run took place yesterday, and my son Nick, and one of my daughters, Molly, and her boyfriend, came home to run in this. My daughter Molly is “thumbs up” ready to go for this. We got to spend time as a family, running, walking, exercising, together! And of course, members of our run club were there as well.

hospital hill WARC

All smiles after the race. We had some other that were there as well, but they had to leave sooner for other family activities, but we were there…supporting each other, cheering each other…just being there! Jill was able to run it, and we were all cheering! My son Nick came up and brought all of his college room mates as well!

Nick and roommates

The four stooges! They did great, and they had a good time! This is what memories are made of! We become better ourselves, by supporting those around us, and they return the favor. Can it really can much better than this? That is what makes life rewarding…fulfilling…enjoyable!

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I really cannot say it anybody than this! To all of my run club friends: Am I wrong with this? Thanks for all the support you give me as well! Run on everybody! Keep moving everybody!

Dr. Dan

Consecutive Exercise Day #: 3543

Becoming a Better You: Run for Charity!

Team FARA medtronic
Many of us in the Watertown Area Run Club, WARC, have signed up for the Twin Cities Marathon on Oct 1 this year, and many others for the 10 mile run. We are jumping in anticipation of why we are doing this race. It is for charity, and a very special charity. We are running for ongoing research in regards to Friedreich’s Ataxia. Friedreich’s Ataxia is a rare inherited disease that causes a gradual breakdown of the nervous system. It affects nerves in the brain and the spinal cord that control movement. It also affects sensory nerves that help with coordination. About one in 50,000 people in the United States have Friedreich’s Ataxia. In Watertown alone, there have been at least 4 people. For me, they are family members of friends, and also, relatives. I have had at least 3 cousins affected by this. So, Sarah and I have decided, along with many members of our WARC, to run for a cause this Fall. We are going to run for Team FARA!
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Team FARA is Friedreich’s Ataxia Research Alliance. All money raised will go towards continuing research in the hopes of finding a cure. Sarah and I have many charities requesting financial assistance from us throughout the year. It is impossible to give to all of them, even though we want to. We have to pick and choose. Tom Batta, whose is a member of WARC, has a daughter with this disease. And as I said above, I have multiple cousins/relatives affected by this. I can’t think of a better cause to run for, and donate to. So, Sarah has signed up to run the marathon. This will be her first marathon ever! She is very nervous about this, but thinks if she were ever going to do one, she could not think of a better reason to try than this. Not only are we going to run, I am donating $1000.00 to her fundraising efforts, and she is going to donate $1000.00 to mine. We will continue to ask repeatedly, through Facebook, or this site, for anyone who wants to donate for this cause. You can get on the internet and type out Team FARA 2017 Friedreich’s Ataxia Research Alliance, and it will direct you to the website. A direct website is http://fara.convio.net/site/TR?fr_id=1371&pg=entry. It then has listed on the left side where you can type in the participants name, so either Sarah or I, or our team, which is Medtronic Twin Cities Marathon and 10 Mile. It does not matter who to list if for otherwise, it can be put under our team. We are all working for the cause. As of this writing, there are currently 12 full marathon participants, 10 of which are members of WARC, and 9 people that are running the 10 mile! One of our WARC members, and my good friend and training partner, Tom Beaudry, is donating $26.20 for each member of WARC participating…to represent the 26.2 miles we will be running for the marathon!

Sarah and I arm in arm
Sarah and I will continue our training together, and running for a very good cause! Please consider joining us. How much more motivation could there be than to run for a charity…to exercise and run when we have the ability, in order to help somebody who cannot? People with Friedreich’s Ataxia would run in this if they could, so we will help them out by running for them. That is what becoming a better you is all about! Appreciate all of our abilities, physical and mental, and join in. The rest of us have no other excuses, except what our mind is telling us. Take advantage of our abilities, and put them to good use. For those of us running this event, we can use all the support we can get…motivational, encouragement, and financial. Please consider donating!

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Run for someone else. Exercise for someone else! Become a better you, and…

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Doing this for another cause can be more rewarding than anything else life has to offer. Not only do we need to Strive to Survive, but let’s help someone else achieve this too! Keep moving everybody!

Dr. Dan

Consecutive Exercise Day #: 3536

Becoming a Better You: Remember!

Pa army digital final
This Memorial Day, take the time to remember what other people have done for us. Things like our freedom, and in this case for me, a home, a family, and a great role model to follow: My Dad! It has been 3 years now since he has passed away, and not one day goes by where I don’t think of him. It is nice to have pictures to sit back and look back at, and then all of those memories come flooding back, both smiles and tears! Looking back especially at these pictures of my Dad when he was in the Army. To think of what he had to give up, in order for us to have what we have now.

Pa army 2 digital final
To be away from home when you are that young, and then not knowing whether you are going to get to go back home to see everybody again. I can’t imagine what things would have been like under those circumstances. On this Memorial Day, we need to appreciate everything all of those people did for our freedom, and remember those who not only came home, but those who did not. Just REMEMBER!
timeless treasures
We always have our memories to look back on, it is just taking the time to be doing this, and to realize they truly are timeless treasures.

Family early years
My Family and I have changed a lot over the years. As times continues to go on, the same people may not be in the picture anymore, but that does not mean we forget about them. It does mean we have to appreciate them even more while they are still here, and to remember to tell them how much you care about them while they can hear it. We need to remember to take care of ourselves as well, so we can have more time to be around, and enjoy life with them as well.
Dad and I
This is one of the last pictures I have of me with my Dad. It is both good and bad. Good, because I got to spend time with him, bad because his memory was getting so bad I had to keep telling him who I was. That is why memories are so important to have, and to keep thinking of at times. This can help us to not forget. He could not remember something that just happened, or what was going on at the time, but if you brought up things when he was younger, he could talk on and on about that. So, that is what we talked about. They truly were timeless treasures. He did not forget about those things. Everything cannot be taken away from us. So I am also going to be taking the time today to remember my Day…remember all of the good times, and will again realize how much I miss him! Become a better you…REMEMBER!

remembering Dad

Keep moving everybody! Remember what Memorial Day is really about!

Dr. Dan

Consecutive Exercise Day #: 3530

Becoming a Better You! What Social Running Can Teach You!

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We all need those certain times when it is nice to just go for a walk or run on our own. Time to think, to get away, to relax. But, there are also those times where it is a lot of fun running, walking, or working out in a group. You are all going through the same thing, but you can talk…socialize. You get to know each other a little better. We all are busy, we all have crazy schedules, but for that brief moment, you are like one. You have no other worries at that time. For us, with run club, it is a time to just go for a run. We do not have to be fast, or competitive…you are there because you like to run! That is the only requirement…to like to run! The motto of this club is “we leave no one behind”. Some days some of us go faster, other days not. Some days certain of us like to go farther, others not. Whatever you want to do is what you can do. No pressure. No competition. Just friends gathering to discuss issues, solve problems, and run! We are all there for each other. We cheer each other on. We motivate each other. We CARE about each other. That is what this is all about!

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We like as many to show up as possible. We are quite the force going down the road when we have a large group show up. If you are free, then show up. If you can’t, then maybe next week. We are now starting again the Wednesdays at 5:30 at Northridge Brown Clinic, and then Sundays at 7AM, now back at Jackson Park again, the North parking lot.

Megan, Sarah, Nate
The good part about all of this is that when some of us can’t make it here, we are running somewhere else. Why? Because we like to run. It is as simple as that. Sarah and I do many races together, but the really fun ones now are the ones I get to do with my kids. Megan and her boyfriend Nate set this run up for us in Fairfax, VA. We were there these last few days for Megan’s graduation from George Mason University. When Megan has been home on vacations, she has joined our run club here as well. Not too bad for someone who loves to swim, not run. But, she is realizing she can run anywhere, anytime.

run club congratulations
The weather these last few days here has not been the best. It was back to the cold again this weekend, but it did not stop these diehards. They made a sign congratulating those of us who ran in Fargo the day before, and for Megan for graduating. Why would these do this? Because that is what friends do! They support you whether you are present there or not. We are always cheering each other on. Encouraging us to keep moving. If we want to run faster at races, we push each other. But the bottom line is encouragement to just keep moving. Keep trying. Keep working. Just like life. We are all “in it for the long run”. So take your friends along with you. Become a better you at the same time.

Jill, Kala, Paula
Here Jill and Paula are at Fargo, with Paula’s daughter Kala. Right Paula…great to run with your kids, isn’t it? Paula a personal best at her half marathon! I am not sure who was happier…Paula…or the rest of us in this run club! We all knew she could do it. We believed in her. But it really did not matter what her time was…it really does not matter that for any of us. The important part is to get out and run. Work on our health. Work on being here longer. Enjoying life better, healthier. I mentioned a sign last time about the race at Brookings the week before…it said “Life is short. Running makes is seem longer.” Yes, some days can be a struggle, but overall, our running will allow us to be around enjoying life longer. Whether running, walking, or exercise in general. It does not matter, as long as it is an activity we like.

5K group
Besides, when it comes to doing these other races, you can never have enough medals! The places we have gone as a result gave us a lot of other adventures to remember, and to have to talk about in the future. What are you waiting for? Get off your butt, and get moving! Don’t let life pass you by. And, remember, if you want to run, come join us at run club. No restrictions. No judgement. No pressure. Just show up! And then you will be like my daughter at the end of this past weekends 5K run…you will be dancing like no one is watching!

megan dancing

Keep moving everybody!

Dr. Dan

Consecutive Exercise Day #: 3523