by Dan | May 20, 2018 | Exercise, Family, Goals, Motivation, Wellness/Health
We had a great run yesterday. Many of us from Watertown, and our run club, went up to Fargo to be in either the Half Marathon, or Marathon. If was a little cold to start with, and windy, but it did not stop it from being a great run. We were all there for each other, cheering each other on, and waiting until the last of us came across the finish line. We train together, race together, spend time together…support each other. This is the best part of running. The friends that are made, and the memories that last a lifetime. It is not about running. Running just happens to bring us together for a common goal.
We all started off by showing up at the Fargo Dome the day before to hit the expo, and pick up our packets.
We met up with friends, and spent the afternoon laughing, eating, and getting fired up to run the next day.
That someday was yesterday. We had all trained and were ready to go. Many of us set some personal records, which all of us were trying to achieve. But, more important, we were there to run. One of our running friends was hurt and could not run…Tom Beaudry. He was at home wishing he could. We were all wishing he could be there with us. Anytime one of us is hurt, and can’t participate, something is missing. We have all been there at one time, and it is a terrible feeling. Steve Hauck has been having knee issues and can’t run, and has told me how much he wishes he could be back out there running with us. We cannot take anything for granted. We don’t know how long we will be able to keep doing this. But, the bottom line, it is not about running. It is about people coming together who have a common interest, and a bond develops between us like no other. The memories we share, the discussions we have, the time we spend together is priceless. Nobody can take that away from us. Even for those of us who did not get the time they were hoping for were just happy to be able to run, because somebody was still back at home who could not. We were all thinking of you Tom. Here to many other runs in the future together. We had tons of people back home cheering us on, and following us on live tracker to see how we were doing. Nothing is going to break that bond we have created. Like the sign says, some day is today!
Sarah and I got to spend some quality time together for a little mini vacation as well. The week before we were in SF running the Race against breast cancer.
Here we are getting ready to do the Fargo half! We each ran our own race, but believe me, I was thinking of her and how she was doing the whole time as well…and waiting at the finish line for her to get across.
There is nothing like the feeling of crossing the finish line and realize that no matter what your time was, that we at least had fun, that we did the best we could that day, and we have another medal to show for our efforts. We all waited around to cheer the last of us coming in, as Amanda and Erika were doing the full. Some of us struggled, but the rest of us were there to cheer them on. We are never in this alone. We all have each others backs. One day everything will be clicking and we will have a great race, and the next time we don’t even come close. That is ok. Remember, have fun and enjoy the moment. Karla Claussen was the perfect example of this in the run. She knew it was not going to be her day for a time, so she spent the rest of it taking pictures with her and everybody along the way, smiling, laughing, taking it all in. She was going to have fun no matter what. That is what it is all about! It was not about he final time, our final finish place, but the adventure along the way. The shirt I wore has a saying on the back of it: Success–A journey, not a final destination! How true! We all need to remember that. Have fun, take it all in, and enjoy life as it comes!
I seized the moment too. Some of our run club members had a coach from SF, Benson, who was an elite runner. He had a badge that identified him as an elite athlete. I got to wear it long enough to have my picture taken with it. I was an elite athlete at that moment! I finished. I had one of my best times in a long time. I had fun, and I got to spend it with friends. The only thing that would have been better yesterday is if Tom Beaudry would have been there too…and Steve Hauck. These 2 were long time training partners of mine, and it is just not the same without them. Hope to have you both back running again soon! My running family is just as important to me as anybody else! Keep moving everybody!
Dr. Dan
Consecutive Exercise Day #: 3875
by Dan | May 13, 2018 | Exercise, Family, Holidays, Motivation, Wellness/Health
Happy Mother’s Day to all of you mothers out there! You truly have no idea what difference you make in your families lives. A mother may or may not have children of their own, but they all take care those who are “their kids” in one way or another. You all fall into this category. Mothers are there when we need them, always sacrificing for others, never thinking twice about what they need to do for their families. There are the foundation of all families. I got to spend this weekend with my mom, and as I told her, I can’t tell her enough how much I love her, and how much I appreciated everything she has done for me in my life. Thank you mom! Sarah and I went to SF to help celebrate this day, and also ran in the Avera annual race for breast cancer run.
My Sarah ran as well! We have run this race for many years. We really have made an effort over the last 17 years as my sister-in-law is a breast cancer survivor. We ran for her…and all moms who have had breast cancer. We all know someone, a friend, a sister, an aunt, or our mom, who have had breast cancer, and have battled through it. This is our way of showing support for them, and all women, and to show support for them, showing them how important they all are to us. All of us are affected by this in one way or another.
Here is our group just before race. My sister-in-law Joni is crouched down in the middle of the picture. The rain held off, and it started out a little cold, but nobody who was there thought twice about this. We were all there for a reason. We were there to show support Joni, and for all of the breast cancer survivors. The route was very hilly and challenging, but the bottom line is our journey was nothing like what they had to endure during their treatment. I always said having this race on the weekend of Mother’s Day is the best way to show how important our moms are to us. We appreciate everything you do for us.
Mothers definitely hold the family together! We love you for everything you do for us!
This AM our run club went out and ran just like any other Sunday. I wanted to get all of our mother’s together…and again, whether a mother directly or indirectly for someone, you are all important. I hope you all realize the sacrifices you make for your families are truly noticed and appreciated. The next slide reveals what you all represent in summary:
Thank you Mom! Thanks to all of you moms! You are loved and appreciated beyond words! Thank you for all you do! Don’t ever change. At times you need a break just like all of us, but your job as a mom never takes a holiday! You all keep going forward, pushing us, encouraging us, supporting us…loving us! Thank you very much!
Keep moving everybody…just like our moms!
Dr. Dan
Consecutive Exercise Day #: 3868
by Dan | May 6, 2018 | Exercise, Family, Goals, Motivation, Wellness/Health
Things in life don’t always go as planned. You make the best of them anyway. Even though things may not go as planned, it does not mean it was not a good thing. Act like it was planned! Act like you are coming across the finish line and have all kinds of energy left, and you met your goal, whether it was for distance, time, or just showing up! If you stepped out on a limb and signed up for a race or a walk, then have fun doing it, regardless of the outcome. Be grateful you even got to participate. Many people would love too, but may have a reason they could not, physically or otherwise. Take advantage of the fact that you got to be there.
The first rule to follow to “Believe in Yourself” is to “Be You”! Only you can be you! Nobody else is in your shoes. Nobody else has your life, your struggles, your stress. But they also don’t get to enjoy the good parts of your life! Only we as individuals can do that. Be grateful to yourself, be kind to yourself: Be You! When you believe in yourself, good things happen.
Last week I talked about my son breaking the 2 min barrier in running the 800 meters in track. The first time he had even broken 2 min, running a 1:58. He had another track meet Friday, Howard Wood, in SF. He broke it again, another 1:58! What is the difference now? Because he proved to himself that he could do it, and now he can go out and repeat. He believes in himself! Believe in yourself, and you will become unstoppable. Our bodies are capable of anything. It is our mind we have to convince!
Jenn, one of our run club members, and a friend, is on the far left in this picture. She just graduated yesterday with her masters for teaching. 2 years she spent doing this, all while working, running, being involved in races, being married, and raising 2 kids. How? She believed in herself. She believed she could do it. There is no question it was a lot of work, and a lot of sacrificing of other things, but she did it. Another individual who made a huge accomplishment in their life! As with all things in life, it you want it, you have to earn it. You can’t take your health for granted. You have to earn it, and work at it also.
Some things with exercise are not always easy. You have to learn to get out of your comfort zone, and to go beyond what you thought your limitations were. If you are not willing to push your limits, you have no idea how far you can actually go. Do you want to settle for something, or be the best you can be at it? The rewards are unlimited when you believe, and then follow through with actions.
You have to rely on people around you, your friends, and your family. When trying to work on exercise and a healthier diet it is much easier when you have help. Take advantage of that help, and then remember to return the favor to them as well. No one should have to struggle alone. We all have times when we need someone to help us through, to help motivate us…to help us get off of our butt and do something about it, no matter what the issue may be! Just remember, when you work at it, when you believe, when you can be you, things change…for the good!
Believe in Yourself! Be You! It is your life, and you are in the driver’s seat. Just make sure you fasten your seat belt! Keep moving everybody!
Dr. Dan
Consecutive Exercise Day #: 3861
by Dan | Apr 29, 2018 | Exercise, Goals, Motivation, Wellness/Health
I was reading a book earlier this week which brought up the poster of “Keep Calm and Carry on”. There are a lot of popular things you can buy these days with the caption of “Keep Calm…”. It was originally created in 1939 on a motivational poster produced by the British government in preparation for World War II. The poster was intended to raise the morale of the British public, which was threatened by widely predicted mass air attacks on major cities. Over 2 million of these posters were printed, but never made it to the public. Then in the year 2000, one of them was discovered at Barter Books. Since then it has taken off by a number of private companies, and has many other modern meanings attached to it. It really does speak reality. Everything in life is busy, hectic, and we don’t always know how we are going to handle all of this. Then we need to keep working on our own health, and trying to exercise, and eat healthy as well. You get to the point where you don’t know how you are going to handle all of this. So, for starters, it really is best if you Keep Calm, and then put your head down, and carry on. Our run club group is getting ready to take off for one of our Sunday runs. We are ready to “Carry on”. Challenges always pop up during our days. It can include our schedules, and not having enough time to get everything done. It can include the weather, which can delay many things, and plans for what we may have wanted to do.
Here I am with Sarah, my twin daughters, Molly and Megan, and their “brother from another mother”, Noah Hauck. We are lined up at Disney in January to do the half marathon, the first one for the 3 kids. It was cold. Low 30’s, and we had to stand outside for well over 2 hours waiting to start. We were freezing. We are huddled together to try and stay warm, and at the same time, try to keep a smile on our face. In essence, we had to “keep calm and carry on”.
My son Nick this week finally broke 2 minutes for the 800 meter race on the track. For years he has been trying, but could not break that 2 min barrier. We talked several days before then, and basically told him to just relax, and do the best he can. Whatever will be will be. The more uptight he would get about it, the worse his times would be. He finally did it Wednesday night. He ran a 1:58:71! How did he do it? Deep down, he finally relaxed, and believed in himself. He kept calm, and carried on!
Training partners can help keep you going. They can help keep you calm. They can provide encouragement. It is a 2 way street though. You have to provide encouragement and presence as well.
Yoga can also help you keep calm. Here some of our run club members practice yoga at the time of the run! Way to go Jill, Paula, and Amanda! You also have to have fun. If you don’t make your goals fun, then they just become another stress, another deadline, or another commitment that you can’t keep, which just then adds more stress to your life. We are trying to ease the stress in our life, not create more! Bottom Line:
Words from the past that definitely still have meaning and motivation today. The original intent is not the same, but we can all learn from it. We can all remember to follow in our everyday endeavors. It is an important component of trying to Strive to Survive. Keep moving everybody, and “keep calm and carry on”!
Dr. Dan
Consecutive Exercise Day #: 3854
by Dan | Apr 22, 2018 | Equipment, Exercise, Family, Goals, Motivation, weight lifting, Wellness/Health
We may all be at different levels, but the bottom line is that we are all athletes! We were made to move, and some of us may do it faster than others, or longer than others, but if you get out and move, and push yourself more than you would need to do, or are required to do just to do your activities of daily living, than you are an athlete. We don’t have to be professional. We just have to move. Besides Family Medicine, I am also involved in Sports Medicine, and came across a definition here recently that I think sums this up the best.
For all of us who stay active, there are bound to be times when we get hurt, or develop pain. The majority of these are still temporary. The problems were are helping to push back, or avoid altogether (high blood pressure, diabetes, obesity) can last a lifetime. We all need to get out of our “comfort zone”. We all can achieve benefit from this. For my part, there is always things to learn about Sports Medicine. I was just at a 2 day conference in SF to learn more about this.
There are always new treatment plans, ideas, research, and literature to review. They had new updates on concussion protocols, surgery updates, therapy updates, challenges of getting people to get out and move, as well as challenges that we as health care providers face when dealing with people who get injured, and how to get them back to what they want to do. It is always a challenge, but one thing that helps me in my plans of how to take care of someone, is being a runner myself, I understand the mindset involved with this, and how much somebody wants to get back to their same level of activity. Very few of us our professional athletes, but we should all be recreational athletes. We all need to move. “Use it or lose it!” The best part of all of this is there is so much variety of different activities out there to do that we can ALL find something to get involved with.
Here are a bunch of our run club members out in my garage, the Reiflex Center, doing weight/resistance activities. It is so much more enjoyable doing this as a group. We all need to do something. That hidden athlete is in all of us, just waiting to come out. Specific weight goals, times challenges in walks or runs are not the ultimate goal. These goals may help though to keep us motivated to keep working on things, and to stay active and healthy. But, the ultimate goal is to live life to the fullest, to be able to spend time with our family and friends, and to continue to have good times, and make lasting memories. That is what it is about. Keep pushing that inner athlete in you. It is there! Some days may be harder to find than others, but the rewards that can come about are more important that any time or medal that you may get. It is impossible for each of us to know everything, and to do everything. Making an effort is a start, and something is better than nothing. Keep learning! Keep trying! Keep moving everybody!
Dr. Dan
Consecutive Exercise Day #: 3847
