We all have goals or ideas in our minds that attempt to make us feel like we are a success. But what really does it mean to have success? Is it achievement of a goal? Money? Our health? What? Success if defined as the achievement of something desired, planned, or attempted. That could mean something different for all of us. But deep down, what is success to you? For me, I would feel like a success if I were a good Dad/Husband. I am always trying to be successful with my health, and staying active. I am always trying to be a better doctor. But deep down, I would feel like a failure if I would not be considered a good Dad/Husband. We all get busy. We all feel like we get pulled in multiple directions. This is where you have to start making a plan, and figuring out the direction you are taking.
This is where it is important to sit down and think, and come up with a plan. Organize it. Write it down…it will be more concrete for you. Keep looking back at your plan, and it is OK to make modifications, just don’t veer way off of your original plan. Somewhere in that plan will be the reason you want to be successful. Somewhere in there is how you will become a better you. That deep down desire! Never lose site of that.
How much more true could this be? Focus all your power on your burning desire of what you want to accomplish…what it will take for you to be a success…a better you!
For me it will always focus back to my family. My kids are all off to college, so now it is just Sarah and I…and of course Zeus. Zeus is like having another kid at home! But for all of us, over time we keep evolving, growing, maturing…changing! True success will be discovering who you really are!
Family will always be a focal point. It you don’t have a true focal point, you will find yourself struggling, floundering, and not really feeling like you have a purpose. Exercise helps me stay focused on this aspect of it. Now when we all get together, it really is something special. I see this only growing stronger as time goes on. That same evolving, maturing, growing process for the kids as well.
I would like to think that that focal point for my family is with Sarah and I…that we are the rock…the stabilizing forces for this family. Exercising together keeps us healthier, and also allows both of us to lead by example, for not only our patients, but our kids! Now that is true success!
Believe what you are doing will make a difference, not only for you, but for others. That is being a success…becoming a better version of you, which will help others become a better version of themselves. Enjoy life to its fullest while we are here. We are not guaranteed tomorrow. Don’t waste what time you do have. Stay healthy, keep moving, and enjoy life, with all of its ups and down. Enjoy the ride of this roller coaster life. You will learn from it, and become better for it…you will be successful! Keep moving everybody!
Dr. Dan
Consecutive Exercise Day #: 3327
