Our lives are all busy, but it is important to take the time to remember what is important. Family, friends, and time spent with them is what really matters. All those memories we create in our lifetime need to be cherished for what they are, and they mean just as much to the other people in our lives who share those memories with us. Running has always been a great way for me to spend time with my family, and my friends…as well as attempting to take care of myself. Countless runs, countless workouts, countless conversations, and countless laughs, have been had. I would not trade any of those times. I want “something just like this” to keep happening. You should too. It is never too late to start. Make it a priority! Now! Several friends and I are celebrating getting ready for the Fargo Half Marathon last weekend.
The runs, and times, I just had with my family at Disney this January will always be remembered. Our neighbors came with, and their kids are like our kids. My son Nick had to be back to college though, so he could not come. There will be more times we will have, and he has been at other runs with us, and will continue to do so. I was looking back at some of those pictures too. That is what is nice about digital pictures. You can keep taking pictures all you want, and you have them. It allows me to take many more pictures now than when we had film cameras! I have more memories to continue to look back on, plus the ability to keep making more! I want “something just like this”!
Carissa and I helped each other get through the marathon. It was her first. Conversation was strong in the beginning, then faded as we got in the 20’s for miles. Fatigue starts setting in, and you just want to be done. We helped push each other. That is what friends do. That is what family always does! We push each other to become better than we ever thought we could. These people all keep reminding each of us to keep going, and never give up. Become better. Become stronger. Become more confident. I want “something just like this”!
Even last year when we went out to Virginia for Megan’s graduation from college, we entered a 5k run that morning first. Like Meg had posted on Facebook at the time: “Who does that!” We do! The Reiffenberger’s! We take our health seriously. I want “something just like this”!
This picture has my son Nick, Sarah, my daughter Molly, her fiancée Tanner, my brother Tim, and my mom in it. We had a surprise 60th birthday party a few weeks ago for my sister-in-law. We ran the breast cancer run that morning in SF, in honor of her. She has been a breast cancer survivor for 17 years! That is what family does. We care, we show up, we are in each others lives. I want “something just like this”!
I have made many friends in our run club. There are an extension of family. You learn about them. You run with them. You sweat with them. You care about them! You are never alone. I want “something just like this”!
Sarah and Zeus are now home with me all the time. We live together, spend time together, and take care of each other. I could not ask for anything better. I would like to have my kids home more, but with school, and their busy lives, it makes it tougher to do. It needs to become a higher priority again once school is done. I want to be a part of their lives. I want to learn from them. Someday, we will have grandkids to spoil! I can’t wait for that! I want “something just like this”!
And, I want to spend more time with Sarah! I want to run more with her, both regular daily runs, and races, and travel, and just be with her! We are working on year 28 for being married. I see all of the time in the clinic with patients who have been married a long time, and one of them passes away, or they get a divorce. Both are terrible. You can’t take anything for granted. It is always work. I had one couple as patients who had been married 80 years. All he could say is it what “complete happiness”. Then his wife chimes in, and all she could say was “it was a lot of work! A lot of work!” Yes, a lot of work. Just like trying to exercise regularly. A lot of work. Everything in life involves work, but the rewards are huge! Don’t ever let go of your dreams, or those people close to you. They are more important than anything else you have. Keep working on your health, and be around longer to enjoy all of those things. Then all of us will be saying that we want “something just like this”!
Keep moving everybody!
Dr. Dan
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