My patients will hear from me continuously to keep working on their diet and increasing activity, and “I will tell you that until you are not here anymore!”. But, you also have to take in some compromising points as well: We still need to be happy, but there are ways you can still indulge at times, and still be healthy. You have to learn to pick and choose, and decide which times you may have some of these more “unhealthy” things, and how much each time. So here I am after just finishing a 15 mile run, and we were celebrating Steve’s “runaversary” date…he started running 7 years ago. His wife brought us cupcakes to help celebrate. The only problem was, I still had a mile to go to get home yet, and I had to either run or walk. I decided to run another mile, so then I could eat my cupcake faster! I had to run by Cattail Crossings golf course to get home, and boy, did I get the looks running holding a cupcake. They were just all jealous!
Tom and I were all pumped up when we heard there would be cupcakes when we got back! It is ok to indulge…sometimes. Like I said, you need to pick and choose, and you make up some of the difference by what you do with your activity. You just have to remember to have fun, and do what we did when we were kids: Play! We had fun playing. There was no pressure coming from having to get other obligations done, work or family, and really no other responsibilities, especially during the Summers! So we need to get back to those days…play, have fun, but be healthy in the process.
And don’t worry what somebody else may think. If you get strange looks, they just don’t understand. That does not mean you can’t help them to understand. Just like me going by the golf course, running, holding a cupcake. I earned that cupcake, but I had to get home first. So when I finished my last mile, and was coming up the driveway, needless to say I did not make into the house before the cupcake was devoured. That was my reward. I earned it! Don’t worry what other people may think either, especially if the things you are doing are helping you to achieve the goals you have set for yourself.
Sarah and I did some biking when we were out in the Black Hills a few weeks ago. It was a great time. It was like being a kid again, and just going out on your bike, and not really worrying about anything else. Now I do have to admit thought, with some of those hills out there, I did some worrying about how we were going to get up those hills. But the scenery was something to take in…and being on the Mickelson trail, we were able to see things up closer, and with a different perspective than we would have if we had stayed in the car and just drove. In the process, you continue to make great memories…memories for a lifetime.
Memories, and having fun doing it! What more can you ask for. Things that we try when we work on our health doesn’t always work. We may try different diets, or different types of activities, and they may not all be enjoyable. But, you learn from those times, from those mistakes, and then you stick with what you do like. That what life is about…trial and error. The important point is to learn from those mistakes, and don’t keep making the same ones over and over again. Progress is when we make mistakes, learn from them, and then make other attempts to improve. Failure is when we make mistakes, and then keep repeating them thinking we are going to have a different outcome.
Have fun in the process. Remember to get back to “play time”…stay young at heart. You are only too old to do something that you would enjoy once you are no longer here. Enjoy life along the way, take some breaks, continue to keep working on improving our health by working on our diet, trying to stay active, and remembering it is ok once in awhile to indulge and enjoy some of the things we really like in life…once in awhile!
Keep moving everybody!
Dr. Dan
Consecutive Exercise Day #: 3599